“Suicide is a permanent solution to a temporary problem.” – Phil Donahue
How many times have we have noticed something strange or off about an individual that we know? Whether they verbally stated their problems or their behaviors told the story, did we notice but fail to ask if everything was ok? Maybe it was that family member, friend, or coworker who stop coming around as much, significant weight loss/gain, giving away of personal items, change in attitude, constant talks about not being around anymore, or whose personal hygiene has not been up to par lately. Sometimes we get so busy or consumed with life that we miss the signs. For some people it’s hard to ask for help so if you notice a change in them stop and ask “are you ok?”
I recently had the pleasure of speaking with Young Camofloug, a Baton Rouge, Louisiana music artist.
Young Camofloug……..Who is that? If you are wondering who Young Camofloug is, well let me enlighten you – he’s Chris Anthony Moore, also known as “Camofloug”. He was given the name by his peers for obvious reasons, made his debut releasing the single “Stare” in 2010 on his independent label Camofloug, Inc., all while serving in Iraq. Unexpectedly, while stationed in McGregor, New Mexico, Camofloug received the new of his oldest brother’s disappearance……Only days later to find out that his brother was a victim of suicide. As the topic of suicide is somewhat of a taboo in the African-American culture, Camofloug gives insight on the subject matter (Interview below).
“The struggles I’ve encountered in my life are detailed throughout my artistry.” – Young Camofloug
HeatMag: Have you personally experienced a loss due to suicide? If so, how has it affected you as an artist?
Camofloug: Yes I have. It affected me in different ways such as: set some projects back, left me with writer’s block, not being able to focus, and most of all, depression.
HeatMag: In your opinion how does suicide affect family members?
Camofloug: It’s the worst death a family member could live through. It leaves you with the empty feeling of not having anything to care for and your worth to society. People tend to blame the closest person(s) to the victim for committing the decision, and that’s something only one person has control over.
HeatMag: What are your thoughts as to why an individual may commit suicide?
Camofloug: I believe an individual would commit suicide if they’re feeling their worth has run out. They tend to believe there is no hope for them, accomplishing life long goals, believing they’re only a bearing to people….. It’s when that little glare in their eyes usually goes out.
HeatMag: What are some preventative methods that can be used to combat suicide?
Camofloug: Stay busy, Stay busy, Stay busy, I couldn’t stress that enough; always have something to do, someone to listen to, eat healthy and be well rested.
HeatMag: If “Suicide Prevention” was your platform, as an artist, how would you encourage individuals who maybe contemplating suicide?
Camofloug: As someone with first hand experience, I would always let everyone know I belong with a family of people who are always there for one another, and there’s always someone to talk to. As an artist, I’d be able to always incorporate prevention hotlines and ways to get help.
HeatMag: Do you have any upcoming projects that may be geared towards education on suicide?
Camofloug: Yes I am – Teen Summit. It’s been a project I’ve been working on for about 18 months. It includes major Baton Rouge names as guest and Latangela Fay from Max 94.1 as the host. This event will be complete by August.
HeatMag: We know you have a song about just this subject. Can you tell us what inspired this selection?
Camofloug: The name of the song is: “Forget the World” prod. by: B-Slimm Ft. Kaleisha Brown. The song is dedicated to anyone dealing or has dealt with suicide. In 2007, I had started to feel my worth had run out and came close to committing suicide. I am thankful my faith has been restored, and I have overcome that speed bump of my life. In addition, I’ve had a brother and uncle commit suicide, so it really hits close to home.
HeatMag: How can one get in contact with you via social networks and for bookings?
Camofloug: Follow me on Twitter: @YOUNG_CAMO or my label page @CAMOFLOUG and on Facebook – Camofloug. Contact my manager at 832-620-4151.
SIDENOTE FROM THE SOCIAL WORKER WHO NEEDS A SOCIAL WORKER: There’s hope! There are a number of 24 hour hotlines available to anyone in suicidal crisis or emotional distress. No problem is as big as our life and does not deserve to sacrifice our life for the sake of the problem. Suicide ends the life but not the problem because it still stays on, but hey what do I know I’m just a Social Worker Who a Social Worker!
Crisis Hotlines
National Suicide Prevention
Lifeline (800) 273-8255
Baton Rouge Crisis Intervention Center
(225) 924-3900 or (800) 437-0303
Lafayette Crisis Center
(765) 742-0244 or (877) 419-1632
Suicide Grievers Groups
Baton Rouge:
Baton Rouge Crisis Intervention Center
4837 Revere Avenue
Baton Rouge, La. 70808
Lafayette:
St. Edmonds Church
4131 W. Congress
Lafayette, La. 70506
Yvette Frazier (337) 261-5578
ybfrazier@cox.net
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