How much do you value a promise made?
A PROMISE made is a very serious thing to both you and your partner but it somehow seems bigger to the promisee if the promiser doesnt keep it. Be fair & Be honest when dealing with your mate. Don’t tell him/her you are going to do something and then don’t do it. How would you feel if they did you like that, quite mad. If you said it, do your best to hono…r your word. Either way they will remember it and this is credited to YOUR character. Is not about them it’s about you and that promise you made and was soo excited about. You got them pumped up for it and then you didn’t deliver…don’t do that. Think about it like this…. If, God forbid, something serious happened to your spouse maybe that night ….this is how u will be remembered, as a liar! It may seem small but your spouse counts this as very big. Especially if it’s something they have been waiting to here for a long time. They should not have to come back and say “you promised!” because keeping it is your obligation not theirs, dont attempt to make it their responsibility to remind you! If someone owes you money doesnt it feel Better when you don’t have to ask for it and they just make good on their word and just give it to you. Be mindful if you are the promiser, your day Is coming when you will be the promisee. Don’t make your marriage harder than it has to be by being selfish or inconsiderate.
Remember, time gone is time lost, even if it’s 5minutes of truth…..how much do you value the truth or your relationship or even your mate for that matter? If you have been on both sides of that fence you should deal with the situation with compassion and understanding. Make it easy for you both and keep your promise, your relationship needs truth to really grow & flourish! (willing participants is a MUST!)
