As I sat for hours trying to think about my very FIRST post with THE HEAT MAGAZINE, I found it to come really easy because this is something that i do every day and I just DO IT! So here I am and first I have to give Honor, Thanks, and Praise to the ALMIGHTY GOD for it is only he that I am writing now. Ok Now that I’m free to the world let’s have some fun and talk about things that you know you think about but don’t say. Well I’m that person to say it for you. Have you ever wondered why some people are always negative? I can tell you why, It’s because they dislike themselves and don’t want to see no one else be happy with themselves especially some women. I see a lot of women out in the middle of the day with pajamas, bonnets, and house shoes on but want a man to look at them or wonder why the man at home is not looking or looking at someone else. Then they tend to get mad but in all reality, they can only be mad at themselves. They have gotten at ease with their everyday same old routine and let themselves go. They need to remember at the end of the day they are still WOMEN and if they don’t think they are the bomb and respect themselves, how can they demand it. We as Women should always stay and be on point. I know some of you are saying, well it’s not enough time in the day. I have kids, I have to work, I have to cook, clean, etc. Yeah I know because I am a woman too, but you have to remind yourself of YOUR PURPOSE and why you are here. Please lets not take it back to the stone age days, you have to make time for yourself. It’s ok and there’s no law that says you can’t do it. Get your hair done, dress up, get a mani and pedi. Yes i know that cost money but if you take $20 out of your check every payday it adds up and add it as a bill every month. It will make you feel so good because there’s nothing like being comfortable in the skin you’re in. Now women, don’t get mad at those that do take that time for themselves and you don’t. It’s not their fault, honey it’s yours. Some may take this to heart but I’m only trying to help. This is MY THOUGHTS of the day!!
