The other day i met a 49 yr old black woman who was telling me (with a smile on her face) about how BAD she treats her man. Her exact word were “i’m mean to my man.” when i asked her why is she mean to him… she shook her shoulders and replied “i don’t know”, so i asked her does he treat her bad? did he cheat on you? did he hit you? is he verbally abusive… she said “no he’s very good to me.” at that point i became baffled. Me being a single black women knowing how difficult it is to actually meet a actual GOOD man who treats you right i became some what annoyed by this woman who seemed 2 get pleasure out of treating a GOOD man BAD.
I couldnt help but ask myself… is it women like her who are giving us black women a bad name with black men? she literally bragged about treating this good man bad for no reason other than he’s “Too Nice” SMH.
Fellas… if you are a GOOD man who has had some bad experiences with women and are now assuming that ALL women are the same… it’s not true. There are good women out there who will appreciate you… You just need to be more selective about who you give your goodness to. STOP picking women based on physical appearance alone. Observe her character. Not every women is mentally ready to accept having a good man in her life. Sometimes a person (male or female) has to go through some things in order to APPRECIATE a good thing.
If you are Good man and your lady treats you bad for NO apparent reason… just know that.. she has issues that have nothing to do with you. also know this… she is treating you bad because you are allowing her to do it. I learned the lesson years ago that a person will treat you the way you allow them to.
Too ALL of you women out there who are lucky enough to have a GOOD man (not just any man but a GOOOOD man who treats you the way a man is SUPPOSED to treat a woman).. appreciate your man! There are OVER 2 million single black women out there who are just waiting to snatch him up if you don’t treat him right. Get it together ladies!!
